what is friend ?

What is a Friend

Answers to the Question that what is a friend, how friendship happens and how a friend becomes a part of our life and impacts it for Good

A friend is someone who fills our lives With beauty, joy, and grace And makes the world we live in A better and happier place.

A friend is someone special whose caring ways make a beautiful difference in life.

A friend is someone who thinks that you are a good egg even though he knows that you are slightly cracked

A friend is someone who always knows just what to say to make you laugh and lift your spirits.

A friend is someone who's always there to share, to remember, to care.

A friend is someone who walks in when the rest of the world walks out.

A friend is someone who is there for you when he'd rather be anywhere else

A Friend is someone who knows all about you and loves you anyway!!!

A friend is someone who dances with you in the sunlight, And walks with you in the shadows

A friend is someone who understands your past, believes in your future, and accepts you today just the way you are.

A friend is someone who will always lend a helping hand and a shoulder to lean on, especially in those times when you need someone the most to listen to you

A friend is someone who you cherish and who cherishes you and someone that is a part of your life and will be in your heart always.

A Friend is someone who always knows just what to say, especially when you're having a bad day

A friend is someone who accepts you as you are and always reminds you that you're precious and loved.

A friend is someone who sees through you and still enjoys the view

A friend is someone who knows the song in your heart, and can sing it back to you when you have forgotten the words.

A Friend is someone who loves you when you forget to love yourself

A friend is someone with whom your thoughts, dreams, and secrets you can share. And no matter what you say or do You know that they still care

A friend is someone who puts a smile on your face.

friendship saying

friend is the one who walks in when others walk out

waters may dry..
flowers may die..
but true friends will never say goodbye...

A best friend will always find a way to love you even when you have done something that u cannot fix.

Hope we could be friends? hope u call me?

Good friend put a smile on ur face, great friends make u crackup do hard u practically pee ur pants!!! :p

Forget the times that he walked by.
Forget the times he made you cry.
Forget the times he spoke your name.
Remember-now, you're not the same.
Forget the time he held your hand.
Forget the sweet things if you can.
Forget the times, and don't pretend.
Remember-now, he's just your friend.

through out your life you will meet someone who is unlike any other, you could talk for hours and never get bored, you could tell them things and they wont judge you... person is your soul mate...your best friend don't EVER let them go

Three things of life that are most valuable - Love, self-confidence&friends. In you, I find all three.

Friends are like roses they are beautiful and gentle, but will cause pain in the process of defending themselves

As fast as we became friends we come to notice how much faster we can lose each other...how much more friends you become friends with...even the ones you never think you will...Remember the good times we all have together because time and reality is moving fast and the reality is some of us will never see each other again and some will...but even though we'll all change we'll all remember the times we had together and all the times we said
best friend still the end.

~ Guys are When ever
Friends are for ever
When worst comes to worst
My girls always come first~!!~

a friend wipes your tears away when you are rejected by a crush... but a best friend will go up to him and say "its because your gay isn't it
 

The best love is waking up to your best friend everyday!

I hear and forget. I see and remember. I do and I understand. hats what friends do.

friends don't have to be lovers, but lovers have to be friends

It is easy to love someone tough to be friend and toughest to remain friend forever

Friends are like pee. Everyone can see it but your the only one that can feel it .

You only have as many animals as the ecosystem can provide, but u only have as many friends as you can tolerate the bitching of!

The most beautiful discovery best friends can make is that they can grow separately without growing apart

“God makes lots of people in all colors, shapes, and sizes. He loves them very much, and what we need to realize is that calling people names because they’re different is wrong. Instead, we need to look on them in love and sing this song: ‘I can be your friend. I can be your friend. Any day in any weather. We can be friends and play together…’”

~I Can Be Your Friend sung by the veggies in Veggie Tales
  

losing love quotes

Once upon a time, a long time ago, I fell in love. And there was laughing and funny breaths and happiness. There was much rejoicing. And then, SHUT! Over. Gone. Dead. Completely cut off. Disconnected. The taste still fresh in my mouth. The smell still on my skin. The feeling left in my fingertips. But I can't get that feeling back. I may spend my entire life trying to get back into that Polariod. Fighting all the way. The best thing I have ever known. Even now, years later, anytime I come close to it I want to dive in. Sink or swim. I don't care. I would give anything to be even in the room next to it. Across the street. A breath away. Remembering what I never let myself forget. Looking someone in the eye and knowing; another time, another place, it is right there. In front of me. Within reach. Just open my fingers and wrap them around it. Hold it tightly. And never let it go. Never. Never. I fought. I fought hard. But only with myself. Sometimes I wonder if I should have fought harder. With her. With it. Tried to work it out. It all made sense for about fifteen seconds. Just enough time to say, ?You're right.? What the hell was I thinking. Why didn't I say . . . . something. My line of thinking was ?if she doesn't want it, I don't want to push it.? Why try to keep her where she doesn't want to be? But she did want to be there. She had to. She was happy. There were nights I cried. When we were together and then I took her home and on the way home I cried. Not because I was sad, or even missed her already, but because I was happy. So happy I couldn't contain myself. I talked to God. Whether I believed in him or not. And I said thank you. Over and over. Again and again. I couldn't believe it was real. That I could actually touch her. Kiss her. Look into her perfect green eyes and see myself. But I could. I had seen her before. IN the coffee shop. And I said to myself ?I would give up everything if she would even turn my way.? She was light years beyond me. Another plane. Another class. Confident, beautiful, at peace. So sure. Not for me. I couldn't even dream it. No way could I ever make it real. Did she feel what I felt? I have to believe she did. If I didn't it would be so hard to breathe. So hard to get up in the morning. So hard to be. No one will be her. No one will have those green eyes. No one will have that one lock of hair hiding all her secrets. And no one, ever again (shudder) will make me whole. Not like that. I'm scared. I'm so scared. What if it is real? What if never? What if I'm right? Do you ever wonder, do you ever ask yourself, ?can I live without love?? Can I open my eyes? I'm afraid to. There is a feeling. You know it. This trembling completeness. This warmth. That makes everything big. And you are ten feet tall all the time. Everyone is looking at you. You are the one. The one she chose. The one she calls when everything is wrong, and when everything is right! She is the one who reaches out for you. For me. She once said ? I need you.? I was done. That was what I was looking for all my life. Those words. For something so pure as this creature to need ME! Could not be real. Could not be my life. But it was. Of course, it WAS! It isn't anymore. It is gone. So far away. And it will never be there again. I see little pieces of it everywhere. A glance, a smile, a touch. I feel desperate. I feel alone. So much out there. But I only want to hear one thing. Not sure what. But I will know. If I ever get the chance. I will stretch out my fingers, grasp it tightly, and NEVER LET IT GO! But till then; I will be here. With my open hand. And my desperate heart. And my cold skin. Slowly, regrettably, forgetting just enough that I can survive from one day to the next. To remember is to suffer. To see what was and then look at what is. To hear a voice, feel my heart stop. Watch my breath studder in the cold. She. She can be almost anyone. She can read me like a book. I will open to any page for anyone. Cover to cover. Nothing to hide. Not the fear, the pain, or the hopelessness. It is all there. Large print ; easy to read. Secrets dissolve in tears. Dissipating into honesty, innocence, need. I was lost and now I'm found. I was blind but now I see. Maybe I don't want to. ..

'You'll get over it...' It's the clichés that cause the trouble. To lose someone you love is to alter your life for ever. The pain stops, there are new people, but the gap never closes. How could it? The particular ness of someone who mattered enough to grieve over is not made anodyne by death...

Why people fall in love?

It is a mystery why we fall in love. It is a mystery how it
happens. It is a mystery when it comes. It is a mystery why
some love grows and it is a mystery why some love fails.

You can analyze this mystery and look for reasons and
causes, but you will never do anymore that take the life out
of the experience. Just as life itself is more than the sum of
the bones and muscles and electrical impulses in the body,
love is more than the sum of the interests and attractions
and commonalities that two people share. And just as life
itself is a gift that comes and goes in its own time, so too, the
coming of love must be taken as an unfathomable gift that
cannot be questioned in its ways.

Sometimes, hopefully at least once in your life - the gift of
love will come to you in full flower. Take hold of it and
celebrate it in all inexpressible beauty. This is the dream we
all share. More often, it will come and take hold of you,
celebrate you for a brief moment, then move on.

When this happen to young people, they too often try to
grasp the love and hold it to them, refusing to see that it is a
gift that just as freely, moves away. When they fall out of
love, or the person they love feels the spirit of love leaving,
they try desperately to reclaim the love that is lost rather
than accepting the gift for what it was, then moving on.

They want answers where there are no answers. They
want to know what is wrong in them that makes the other
person no longer love them, or try to get their love to change,
thinking that if some small things were different, love would
bloom again. They blame their circumstances and say that if
they go far away and start a new life, their love will grow.

They try anything to give meaning to what has happened. But
there is no meaning beyond the love itself, and until they
accept its own mysterious ways, they live in a sea of misery.

You need to know this about love, and accept it. You need to
treat what it brings you with kindness. If you find yourself in
love with someone who does not love you, be gentle with
yourself. There is nothing wrong with you. Love just didn't
choose to rest in the other person's heart.

If you find yourself someone in love with you but you don't
love him back, feel honored that love came and called at your
door, but gently refuse the gift you cannot return. Do not
take advantage; do not cause pain. How you deal with love
is how you deal with yourself. All our hearts feel the same
pains and joys, even if our lives and ways are different.

If you fall in love with another, and he falls in love with you,
and then love chooses to leave, do not try to reclaim it nor to
assess blame. Let it go. There is a reason and there is a
meaning. You will know in time.

Remember that you don't choose love. Love chooses you. All
you can really do is accept it for all its mystery when it
comes into your life. Feel the way it fills you to overflowing,
then reach out and give it away. Give it back to the person
who brought it alive in you. Give it to others who deem it
poor in spirit. Give it to the world around you in any way you can.

There is where many lovers go wrong. Having been so long
without love, they understand love only as a need. They see
their hearts as empty places that will be filled by love, and
they begin to look at love as something that flows to them
rather than from them.

The first blush of new love is filled to overflowing, but as
their love cools, they revert to seeing their love as a need.
They cease to be someone who generates love and instead
become someone who seeks love. They forget that the
secret of love is that it is a gift, and that it can be made to
grow only by giving it away.

Remember this and keep it to your heart. Love has its time, its
own season, its own reason for coming and going. You
cannot bribe it or coerce it, or reason it into staying. You can
only embrace it when it arrives and give it away when it
comes to you. But if it chooses to leave from your heart or
from the heart of your lover, there is nothing you can do and
there is nothing you should do. Love always has been and
always will be a mystery. BE GLAD THAT IT CAME TO LIVE
FOR A MOMENT IN YOUR LIFE. 

If you keep you heart open, it will come again...

  

cute love quotes

When the eyes meet and hold strongly they are bound to meet again.

I admit I were never the perfect one... I was never always there... I didn’t make you smile at times but there is one thing I admit I did.. I was the best person I could be for you...

I don’t believe in love because I still don’t have you !!

Though I haven’t told you how much I care, how much you mean  to me, it's not a good to say that I don’t value you, if you only know how much fear losing you then, you'll understand how much I care

Two hearts, two minds, in time did find one love, one aim two paths the same. Hold fast. . . and love will last....

I don't know why you are so special to me? why I like you? Why I care for you? Why I always think of you? Why I loved you but one thing for sure I know that my life won't be like this w/o you!

When you realize you want to spend the rest of your life with somebody, you want the rest of your life To start as soon as possible."  (Movie cute love quote)

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Among you're friends, I care for you the most. Among you're friends, I love you the most. Among you're friends, you hurt me the most. 'Because I know that's all I am to you… among your friends…

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Knowing that I will have you makes me glad; losing you will surely make me sad. I know you don’t need me bad nor do I want you bad it's just that your the BEST I ever had...

It's been said that you only truly fall in love once, but I don't believe it. Every time I see you, I fall in love all over again

I can never love enough, I can never give enough of what you need, I can never sense  what's needed when most needed. I know it’s not good enough. I'm not good enough but damn! I Love You

I've always wanted a world of my own were I can do whatever I want, were I could live alone, till I come to know you, now I wanted to have world shared by two, a paradise shared with you...

How lucky am I to have known someone who was so hard to say goodbye to.

"If I hadn't met you, I wouldn't like you. If I didn't like you, I wouldn't love you. If I didn't love you, I wouldn't miss you. But I did, I do, and I will

"I never know what the future brings But I know you are here with me now We’ll make it through And I hope you are the one I share my life with"

Can’t find a reason why God gave you to me. But that’s not a question to be asked. May be question is how did God knew that I needed someone like you"...

Sometimes the perfect person for you is that whom you least expected to be.

I fear that someday time  would keep us apart & you might forget me, but before it happens, I hope that you have felt, even for a single chance  that  I have cared for  you  best way I know! cute love quotes

Cute love is an attempt to change a piece of dream into reality

What if someone tells you this: "I don't believe in courtship. It's just a waste of time. If I love a person, I'll tell her right away. But for you, I will make an exception… just love me now and I'll court you forever…

If ever things would change and your love would fade, I’d still not break the promise I made. if you let go I’ll accept and there's nothing I can do but I’ll be there and still love you..

Why is it easy to fall in love and yet so hard to be loved back? why should I feel such if destiny permits me not? why do I have to fall if it's you I cant have? why is there a "you" in "me" but never a "me" in "you"?

Even if courage fails you, tell that special someone that you love them in anyway possible....Unknown.

Why is it that after all this time wave been together, I have never really considered you a friend its not because I don’t want you to be one. But because ever since. I have hoped & prayed you will be.. Much more than a friend to me…

 I could do without many things with no hardship....

you are not one of them (unknown)

Missing you quotes

I MiSs ThE tImE wE SpEnT 2GeThEr-I mIsS tHa* wAy YoU uSeD 2 hOlD mE-tHe wAy yOu RaN YoUr FiNgErS tHrOuGh mY hAiR-EvEn tHa* TiMeS wHeN yOu HuNg uP iN mY fAcE 4 TeLLiN* yOu 2 sHuTuP!-ThE wAy YoU tOlD mE yOu LoVeD-ThE wAy iT mAdE mE fEeL-I mIsS tHa* CuTe WaY yOu LaUgH-I mIsS hEaRiNg YoUr VoIcE-I mIsS sEeInG yOuR *#* oN tHa* CaLLeR ID aFtEr We GoT iN a FiGhT-HoW iT mAdE mE fEeL wHeN yOu SaId i WaS yOuR "FaVoRiTe"-ThE wAy We LoOkEd iN 2 eAcH oThErS EyEs aS iF tHe WhOlE wOrLd HaD StOpPeD aNd We WeRe tHe oNlY oNeS LeFt oN iT-I mIsS StAyIn* oN tHe PhOnE w/ YoU aLL HoUrS oF tHe nIgHt-ThE wAy yOu UsEd 2 aSk StUpId ?s, aNd GeTtIn mAd @ mE 4 nOt AnSweRiN* tHeM-I MiSs YoU!
 iM tIrEd oF aLL tHa* HuRt-Im TiReD oF aLL tHa* pAiN, I rEaLLy JuSt WiSh yOu WeRe hEre!

Its not that I miss you I just miss the feeling of being loved and knowing that no matter what someone is there for me that I can talk to about anything, well all I miss is being loved

I miss you when something really good happens, because you are the one I want to share it with. I miss you when something is troubling me, because you are the one who understands me so well. I miss you when I laugh and cry because i know that you are the one that makes my laughter grow and my tears disappear. I miss you all the time, but I miss you most when i lay awake at night and think of all the wonderful times we spent with each other; for those were some of the best times of my life .

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I don't write to tell you that I love you, nor to ask you for explanations that now are not on time. I just write you to express my feelings in this short paragraph. I want to tell you that I really loved you as I demonstrated you. I don't know what happened. But It is too late. I hope you can find your love. Good Bye my dear love

I tried to convince myself I didn't want you anymore.
I just can't let go.
I don't want to see you move on, but I'm not doing much about it either.
You're two different people and I wish it would stop, because I'm living to die and dieing to live, but it doesnt mean a thing to me, until I have you. I felt so good when I was with you, you made me feel like the world; to hear i was your favorite and the best you ever had. You were not ashamed and would hold my hand anywhere. We'd talk on the phone for hours, and everytime we kissed it felt like i was dreaming. Love felt like heaven when I was with you; and now that you're gone im hurting like hell. I miss you so much, and I wish you were here, but I made the wrong choice and its too late, too many mistakes had been made and i lost you, forever -- but you didnt loose my love because i loved you ever since the day i met you. and ill never forget you, because to me, you are the WORLD
 

When you have come to realize that you miss me.....i wont be missing you.

I don't know if i miss YOU or if i just miss the feeling of knowing someone loves me as much or possibly more than i love them. and having the feeling when the one i love defends me and is always there for me when i need them... i dont think you realize how much i miss being able to just go to you, being able to tell you anything and you actually understanding or trying to as much as you can.. i miss that little feeling i got when i was with you!!

I miss u when the sun goes down, I miss u txtin me when I'm tryin to sleep, I miss u goin to my wrk, I miss u touching me an makin me smile! I miss u so much it hurts an everyday my heart breaks all over again cause I know u are with her! Yet I still miss you...

Before I met you I had no clue what love was all I cared about was myself. Then we found each other and I truly found out what love was. Food lost its flavor, the whole world became hazy to where I don't even remember much of what happened. The only thing that mattered was you and being able to put my arms around you. We didn't even need to say anything, just stand next to each other and share our body heat. My true weakness was in her smile. Her face made me realize that everything was ok in the world and I honestly thought that this had to be heaven. Then when she left me it was honestly the worst feeling in the world. I felt like dieing, no, worse, I felt like dieing 1000000 times or ripping my heart out of my chest hoping and praying that if I did that I wouldn't hurt so much. Loosing a lover is the worst feeling in the world and it does the worst things to you. Ever since then I have never really expressed my self fully in fear that I would feel that kind of pain again

Everyday i wake up knowing that ur not right next to me in bed-everyday i hope for u to come back-everyday i think about the time we first kissed-the times we spent together-staying up at-wondering wat ur doing-waiting for ur calls-still love growing for u-thinking of the day when u went away-thinking of you every second-just missing you everyday.

Everyday i think of you.
Everyday you cross my mind.
Everyday i see something that reminds me of you.
Everyday im missing you.
Everyday i wish you were mine.
Everyday i wonder what could of been.
Everyday i think of why you did this.
& everyday im getting stronger.
Everyday im moving on.
But everyday ill always miss you.

missing someone isn't about how long is been since you've seen each other or the amount to time since you've talked. Its about that very moment when your doing something and you wish they were right there with you every time

Honestly, I dont even know wat really happened. When i think abt it, all i remember is that i tried and i tried really hard. But u din seem happy anymore no matter how hard i tried. So i called it quits. All i have ever wanted is ur mesmerizing smile lighting up my life. And i was just not able to feel that. Sorry, if ever i have hurt you. But the only thing that i wish for now is ur happiness. If ever you realize that ur happiness is with me then ur always welcome. I am and i will always be here for u. But even if u happen to find it somewhere else, rest assured I'll be the happiest for u. Love you.

Break up !

You held my heart. You took care of it, kept it safe beside yours. Loved it, cherished it, put it on a pedastal. Then you tore it apart piece by piece, you destroyed my heart. You dropped it, left it with little life, my heart is no longer beating. I carry my heart now, heart is in my hands, I want the pieces back. I want to live again. I need every piece of my heart.

I couldn't get you to love me so I killed myself

It is strange to think, I haven't seen you since a month. I have seen the new moon, but not you. I have seen sunsets and sunrises, but nothing of your beautiful face. The pieces of my broken heart are so small that they could be passed through the eye of a needle. I miss you like the sun misses the flower; like the sun misses the flower in the depths of winter. Instead of beauty to direct its light to, the heart hardens like the frozen world your absence has banished me to. I next compete in the city of Paris, I will find it empty and in the winter if you are not there. Hope guides me, that is what gets me through the day and the night. The hope that after you're gone from my sight, it will not be the last time that I look upon you.

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You took my heart, you broke my heart, you crushed my world in to bits and pieces. So, why, why do I still think of you, why do I still cry for you, why would I still die for you? Why do I miss you?

i love yu....but yu dont care...need i say more???

my heart is ripped...torn into a thousand pieces....scattered across those cherished memories of yu...so we'll always be 2geva...no matta wot...

When you look back and think you want me back remember you let me go…..

I would slit my wrist for you

The day you told me that you love me
It sank so deep; I was drowning in thought, lost for words, speechless as I gaze into your eyes. The tears that flowed down your cheek that very moment soaked my heart making it heavy, I knew it wasn’t mine alone to keep. The way you held my hands so tight drove the words down my spine, a touch that conveyed so much yet so soft. I felt happy inside nevertheless scared of your uttermost sincerity. Will those words of yours pass the test of time? Was it for real or just pass like a dream? With so much questions in the inside yet just you stirring at me from the outside, I took a deep breath and a step closer, with a kiss I said the same words back to you.

you are the air I breathe in so deep, you are my dream when I fall asleep. can't go on without you here because losing you would be my greatest fear

I hurt myself, so I can feel alive.

I was inviting her into my heart, but she was out riding in some other man's car

How can you be there, when you are so deeply in my heart?

Love me in a way that nobody has, not for the way I look OR what I’ve done in the past, deeper than what you can imagine me at my best, touching on connections words can’t express.

everytime i look at you its like im torturing myself .....everytime i see those eyes, i want you a little more
i want you to smile at me, like you smile at her... i want you to think about me like you think about her...i want you to kiss me and hold me like you kiss and hold her...i want you to say i love you and mean it like you do with her....i want you to do anything like you would for her......it kills me to say this but deep down no matter how much i want it, i know i will never be "her"

You haven't felt pain until you can't feel it anymore.

Stitches...
Ther're digging deeper into my heart.
I won't even consider mending it now cause it'll hurt. Medication won't work either. Only time will cure this painstaking feeling.

The best part of 'believe' is the 'lie'